Students understand what they’re supposed to do. They know homework goes in the folder, the agenda needs to be checked, and the laptop charger belongs in their backpack. But consistently—and not intentionally—things are forgotten, started late, or left half-finished.
For students with ADHD, executive-function challenges, or weaker working-memory and processing skills, this situation isn’t because of lack of effort or motivation. It’s related to the mental effort each task requires, and how little of that capacity is left over by the end of a busy school day.
There is, however, a powerful way to reduce that demand: turning important tasks into habits.
The hidden work behind “simple” tasks
Executive functions are the mental skills that help us plan, organize, and carry out goal-directed behaviour. They’re heavily involved whenever a person needs to manage a task without a set routine to follow. Even something as ordinary as getting ready to leave class asks the brain to:
- Remember what needs to be done
- Recall when to do it, at the right moment
- Initiate the task, rather than putting it off
- Sequence the steps in a sensible order
- Hold information in working memory while acting on it
- Decide what to do next
- Monitor progress and catch mistakes
- Inhibit distractions, like a friend’s conversation or a phone notification
- Shift smoothly from one task to the next
For most adults, these steps happen so quickly that they go unnoticed. For a student whose executive functions are still developing, or who has ADHD or working-memory difficulties, each one draws on a limited supply of mental energy. When that supply runs low, something slips.
How habits take over the heavy lifting
Our brains love a shortcut. When a behaviour becomes a well-established habit or routine, many of those decisions no longer need to be made consciously. The student doesn’t have to remember to do it, decide when, work out the steps, or push themselves to begin. The routine carries them through.
In other words, habit reduces the executive-function load. Instead of building a plan from scratch every time, the student follows a familiar path that requires far less mental effort. That frees up attention and working memory for the things that are needed, like understanding a new math concept or organizing ideas for an essay.
An everyday example: the forgotten charger
Consider a student who regularly leaves their laptop charger behind, at home, in class, or at the library. Each time they pack up, they’re relying on executive functions to remember the charger, notice it is still plugged in, and act on that thought while also listening to the teacher, chatting with friends, and thinking about their next class. It’s not surprising that the charger often gets left behind.
Now imagine the same student with a consistent pack-up routine. Every time they finish working, they follow the same short sequence:
- Close the laptop.
- Unplug the charger and wrap the cord.
- Put the charger in the same backpack pocket, every time.
- Put the laptop in its sleeve.
- Do a quick “pocket check” before standing up.
At first, the student may need a reminder card or a prompt from a parent or coach. But with practice, the sequence starts to run on its own. The routine now handles much of the work that executive functions previously had to do, and the charger comes home.
Why repetition matters
Habits form through repeatedly pairing three things:
- A cue: something that signals it is time to act, such as closing the laptop or hearing the end-of-class bell
- A behaviour: the action itself, such as packing the charger
- An outcome: the result that makes the behaviour worthwhile, such as a charged laptop the next day and no last-minute scramble
Each time the cue, behaviour, and outcome occur together, the connection between them gets a little stronger. With enough consistent repetition, the cue begins to trigger the behaviour almost automatically, without the student having to stop and think about it.
That automaticity is the goal. An automatic routine is far less cognitively demanding than repeatedly constructing a plan from scratch. It’s the difference between following a well-worn path and finding your way through unfamiliar territory every single day.
Building habits takes time. In a well-known study of habit formation, researchers at University College London found that it took participants a median of 66 days of consistent practice for a new daily behaviour to become automatic, with individual timelines ranging from 18 to 254 days (Lally et al., 2010). Students with executive-function challenges may need more repetition and more external support along the way, and that’s perfectly normal. Missing a day here and there doesn’t undo the progress; consistency over time is what counts.
Tips for building habits that stick
- Start with one routine. Choose a single, high-impact moment, such as packing up, starting homework or getting ready in the morning, rather than overhauling everything at once.
- Tie it to a clear cue. Link the new behaviour to something that already happens every day, like arriving home, finishing dinner, or the end of the last class.
- Keep the steps short and consistent. Three to five steps, done in the same order, are easier to automate than a long or changing list.
- Make it visible. A checklist taped inside a binder, a sticky note on the bedroom door, or a picture of the packed backpack can serve as a reminder until the routine becomes automatic.
- Give everything a home. When the charger, agenda, and keys always go in the same place, there is less to remember and less to search for.
- Practice when it’s calm. Rehearse the routine at low-pressure times, not only when the student is rushed or tired.
- Notice the payoff. Point out the positive outcome, such as a charged laptop, a calmer morning, or homework handed in on time, so the behaviour feels worthwhile.
- Expect some slips. Gently restart the routine without criticism. Every repetition still counts.
Habits as a scaffold for executive function
It can help to think of habits as an external scaffold for executive function. Just as scaffolding supports a building while it is under construction, routines support a student while their executive-function skills continue to develop. The structure carries part of the load, so the student can succeed now, rather than waiting until those skills are fully mature.
Independence doesn’t have to mean doing everything through willpower. For many students, real independence comes from setting up an environment and a set of routines that require less executive function to start.
How an Evoke coach can help
At Evoke Learning, our coaches work with students to identify the moments in their day where things tend to fall apart and then design practical routines to support them. Together, coach and student:
- Pinpoint the tasks that drain the most executive-function energy
- Build simple, realistic routines with clear cues and consistent steps
- Set up the student’s physical and digital environment so that the right action is the easy action
- Practice and adjust the routines over time, until they become automatic
- Gradually fade support as the student gains confidence and independence
The goal isn’t to make students rely on someone else to remember for them. It’s to help them build systems and strategies that do some of the remembering, so their energy can go where they need it.
If your child knows what to do but struggles to get it done, we’d love to help. Contact us to learn more about our Executive Function Coaching program.
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HBA, ACPC
Certified professional coach (Adler/OISE), applied mindfulness specialist (U of T), and postgraduate learning disabilities specialist (LDGC). Consultant to
LDAO and LDAYS, contributor to ADDitude magazine, and author of a chapter in ACPI's reflective guide for French immersion educators.